Gay Transformational Coaching can Help You Get the Most out of Life.

It's all about getting Real

A lot of guys ask me what gay transformational coaching is all about. Well, it all comes down to getting real.

Getting  Real means being you, really you, confident, comfortable in your own skin. It means being out everywhere, and with everyone, that YOU want to be. It means discovering your gifts and being ready to share them with the world.

You are the only you that there will ever be. You owe it to yourself, and all of us, to live as authentically as you can. Everything that we do is designed to help you do just that.

Who are the Gay Transformational Coaching Programs for?

The Gay Guru® coaching programs are for queer men across the gender, and sexuality, spectrum. You are unique and so is how we work with you.

  • It could be that you’re having trouble finding that relationship you’re craving, or figuring out what to do with the one your in.

  • Maybe you’re just not sure how to deal with getting older in our youth obsessed culture.

  • Sometimes figuring out the right career move has you feeling lost.

  • Dealing with your sexuality and coming out might be weighing on your mind.

So, if you think one of my gay transformational coaching programs might be for you then click the button below to book your free consultation


What Does a Gay Life Coach Do? He Gets You to Step Outside Your Comfort Zone

Coach is an archetype in our culture. It brings to mind someone who is on your team, encourages, teaches, and gives you a good push when you need it. Coaching is all about stretching people’s comfort zones. The results you get are directly related to the work that you’re willing to do. In our coaching sessions we’ll focus more on your path, your mind, your emotions, and your growth.

There's a fine line between pushing through a comfort zone and creating unnecessary stress. A good coach gets to know how far you can be pushed before you cross that line. A little fear of change is normal and expected. Constant stress and terror are not. We’re trying to make your life better not add unneeded challenges.

Everyone is different. I can’t recall a single time that someone has had to push me into action unless it was to move me beyond fear. I usually jump in head first. If you’re like me then my role as a coach is to reel you in and help you consider the longer-term implications of what your about to do.

Of course you may be the exact opposite. Then my role could well be about keeping you motivated, accountable, and in action. Whatever the case your best interest, and long-term goals, are always the focus of our work together.

How is gay transformational coaching different? I’ve tweaked my approach so its more relevant for men. Men tend to avoid reaching out for help, or talking about deeper personal issues. My coaching is direct and action oriented. We will dig deep, and it may get uncomfortable for you sometimes, but you don’t need to get into a lot of "touch feely" processing unless it’s what you really want.

Brian guided me to think in new ways helping me to get out of a locked down, negative, place. He pushed me in new and beneficial directions, but the changes occurred gradually, and at my own pace. It allowed significant changes to happen in a natural, comfortable, way” – Steve C.

What is Life Coaching for Gay Men?

Get Real Coaching is all about me helping you find you unique path to the life you’ve been looking for. A lot of the work we do will be removing powerful, unconscious, blocks that are preventing you from finding your way. To do that we’ll:

  • Address negative emotions like fear, and guilt, that might be holding you back.
  • Reframe unsupportive beliefs, and limiting decisions, that are blocking your progress.
  • Look at your values, the things that are most important to you, to make sure they have you heading in the right direction.
  • Set powerful, achievable goals to motivate you and keep you moving forward.

Sometimes, when you need it, we’ll just have an informal chat to help give you perspective, and keep you moving. You can also email me, text me, or book a quick check-in call, to help you get unstuck when you need it.

Get Real coaching is about you, and what you want from life. That will always be the most important thing when we work together.

“Since our session I have been absolutely blown away at how I’ve felt. Things that would normally cause a flash of anger or frustration were nearly all, but diffused. I didn’t feel angry. I was able to respond with reason and understanding without first having to consciously control myself.” – Anthony

What's Next

Regardless of where you are in your journey we’ll always start with a Free Personal Discovery Session.

The Personal Discovery Session is an important first step for both of us. I always start this way with potential clients because: it helps you understand what life coaching for gay men is;  it gives us an opportunity to figure out if we’d be a good fit to work together; and It lets me understand your problem so I can guide you to the best solution.

If you’re uncertain about your issue, that’s fine, we’ll focus on understanding it, and figuring out how to approach it together. 

If you think that gay transformational coaching might be right for you just click to book your free consultation.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Transformational Coaching?


      • How is transformational coaching different?
          • In regular life coaching your coach acts as an advice giver and guide. With transformational coaching your coach uses many techniques to create powerful lasting change while still providing support and guidance. 
      • What techniques do you use for transformational coaching?
        • I’m a master practitioner of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) which provides a powerful set of tools to release negative emotions, reframe limiting beliefs, create supportive values, and set powerful and compelling goals. 
        • Are the changes you make permanent?
          • Yes, while we sometimes need to tackle a particularly challenging issue in several ways, the shifts we create are profound and permanent.

About Gay Life Coach Brian Madigan

      • Why did you become a gay life coach?
        • For most of my life I’ve been driven to help people. Being a gay life coach lets me put my skills and experience to work making the lives of my queer brothers better.
      • What are your qualifications?
        • I am a Master Practitioner of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming).
        • I have extensive training and coaching experience from a 25 year career in corporate information technology. 
        • I have experience in many other techniques, from energy healing, to the Sedona Method®, that can be used to foster and create change in my clients. 
      • How long have you been coaching?
          • I focused my business on coaching in 2010 but I’ve been assisting and coaching people throughout my adult life. I’ve even run into people from high school who talk about how much I helped them.

Who is GBTQ Men’s Coaching For?

          • I work with queer men across the gender and sexuality spectrum in a respectful and inclusive way.
          • Coaching is ideal for guys who are struggling to know themselves and what they really want from life. 
          • Coaching is also great if you’ve been trying to accomplish something on your own and haven’t been able to. Particularly if you have no idea what’s been holding you back.
          • Many coaches, including me, work in concert with counselors, and therapists. But, a coach is not a substitute for a mental health professional. If you are seeing a therapist, or counselor, it’s important for them to agree before we start working together.