This month we’re going to explore an emotional experience that has caused more confusion than any other. I call it New Relationship Energy (or NRE), a term I first heard when reading articles on polyamory. Its powerful, and beautiful, but … Continued
This month we’re going to talk about passing as straight and the whole concept of ”straight acting”. It was inspired by a video I watched last week that’s the fun and interesting piece this month. Is it easier for guys … Continued
This month we’re continuing our conversation about relationships. Now that you’ve explored what you’re looking for, and who to be with, it’s time to get into action. That’s the most critical part of getting results. Wishful thinking, and positive energy … Continued
This month we’re continuing our conversation about relationships. Now that we’ve explored what you’re actually looking for it’s time to look at who. I’d like you to let go of the obvious for the moment. Don’t get overly concerned at … Continued
This month we’re starting a conversation about relationships. It’s one of the most common things men come to me for help with. There are a few things that you ought to have in place before you even start looking. The … Continued
In late 2001on a safari trip to Africa I had one of the most sad moments I can remember. My partner and I were walking through the beach market on Zanzibar one night when a man approached us.The man was … Continued
We’re seeing big changes as governments across the western world shift sharply to the right. This month I’d like to explore what the implications of that shift are for our community. From Donald Trump to Boris Johnson, from walls to … Continued
This month I’m going to explore the issue of drug use in our community. It’s a topic that makes a lot of people uncomfortable. But, addiction impacts all of us. This isn’t about the “evil of drugs”. I did plenty … Continued
My marriage has shifted significantly in the last little while. We’re exploring what an open relationship is all about. It was rough going for a bit, but that’s to be expected now and then. We’re seeing a counselor who is … Continued