For our last post of the quarter, we’re going to explore the importance of doing work that’s financially rewarding, but also fulfilling. I don’t believe that money isn’t important. It’s part of life. Being paid fairly for what you do … Continued
Figuring out how to make a living doing something worthwhile is a challenge many of us face. How to do it? We’ve been taught to follow the rules. We think doing that will bring us lasting success and happiness. But … Continued
Want to Maximize Your Career Potential? Learn to be You at Work. As we move into summer and a new quarter I’m switching gears and talking about your work life. Whether you run your own business or work for someone … Continued
We’ve already spent a lot of time talking about gay relationships. This month let’s look at how important being your authentic self is when looking for love. Whether it’s your bisexuality, your love of kink, or your passion for drag, … Continued
In this coming out post we’ll be talking about what it really means to come out and why you would even want to. When we think of coming out we imagine a single event. You reveal youre sexuality to your … Continued
Ever since Kinsey stirred up controversy in the ’50s and ’60s with research that suggested human sexuality was widely, and naturally, varying, we have been discovering how right he was. Despite the apparent flaws in his research, what … Continued
This month, for our last post in the Getting Older series, we’re looking at relationships between younger and older men. We’ll cover platonic relationships as well as sexual/romantic ones. Understanding the dynamics between the generations is important. In … Continued
This month, continuing to focus on aging, we’ll take a look at how we resist the maturing process. It’s called the “Peter Pan Complex”, and it’s about men who want to be boys forever. Let’s look at gay men and … Continued
As I started to explore what oder actually means for gay men I’ve heard from a couple of guys freaking out about turning thirty. Wow! Since when is thirty old? From my perspective sixty, which is approaching quickly, doesn’t seem … Continued