This month we’re continuing our conversation about relationships. Now that we’ve explored what you’re actually looking for it’s time to look at who. I’d like you to let go of the obvious for the moment. Don’t get overly concerned at … Continued
This month we’re starting a conversation about relationships. It’s one of the most common things men come to me for help with. There are a few things that you ought to have in place before you even start looking. The … Continued
In late 2001on a safari trip to Africa I had one of the most sad moments I can remember. My partner and I were walking through the beach market on Zanzibar one night when a man approached us.The man was … Continued
We’re seeing big changes as governments across the western world shift sharply to the right. This month I’d like to explore what the implications of that shift are for our community. From Donald Trump to Boris Johnson, from walls to … Continued
This month I’m going to explore the issue of drug use in our community. It’s a topic that makes a lot of people uncomfortable. But, addiction impacts all of us. This isn’t about the “evil of drugs”. I did plenty … Continued
My marriage has shifted significantly in the last little while. We’re exploring what an open relationship is all about. It was rough going for a bit, but that’s to be expected now and then. We’re seeing a counselor who is … Continued
Considering having kids? Have you asked yourself why? What options have you considered, surrogacy, adoption? We’ll take a look at this rather delicate topic and my take on the best way to approach it this month. We’ve all seen those … Continued
This month I’d like to explore a delicate topic, coming out to your kids. What things should men consider, when is the right time, should you do it at all? While some of what we’ll cover is aimed directly at … Continued
As the first “out” generation reaches the “elder care” years we’re seeing how important it is for them to be in gay friendly environments. I’ve read a couple of articles about older gay men going back into the closet as … Continued