In a world where our fight for our rights is becoming urgent, it’s sad to see gay men trying to enforce outdated ideas about masculinity. In this month’s post we’ll be exploring toxic masculinity and its impact on our community. … Continued
As we head to the end of January, many of our resolutions are falling apart. This month we’re going to take a look at why that happens and give you some ides about what you can do to get back … Continued
The #MeToo movement has helped shed light on sexual assault in all its forms. But, what about domestic violence? This month we’ll be talking about a form of assault that is probably much more common than you think among gay … Continued
Of late we have seen some particularly disturbing trends in the US and elsewhere in the world. The Right seems to be having a re-birth in its most distasteful forms. The bad news for GLBT+ people is that we are … Continued
This month we’re going to be exploring something I like to call the myth of the one. It’s idea that there is one person who is the prefect partner for you. Your soul mate. The one you are meant to … Continued
In a recent interview Brian Simms, the out Representative from Pensilvania, recognized a great deal of misogyny (hatred of women) among gay men. I thought I would take this opportunity to explore gay mens’ relationships with women this month. We’ll … Continued
One of the things that gay and bi men seem very divided about is gay promiscuity. As a culture we are far more open about sex than the norm. Yet, sometimes that openness gets out of balance. Sex like any … Continued
For the first time in history the number of people over 65 is greater than those under 15. This month we’re going to talk about the many important advantages that getting older comes with particularly got gay men aging. https://youtu.be/SD3Cd5uhuKs … Continued
This was going to be another preachy post about bisexuality. It’s one of my pet peeves that we, as gay men, are so unwelcoming to our bi brothers. I got to thinking about why we struggle so hard. I think … Continued