The landscape of HIV infection and treatment has changed tremendously in the last few years. Sadly, gay and bi men’s awareness of these shifts hasn’t kept up. Our stigmatization of people living with HIV continues. This month we’ll be taking … Continued
This month I’m writing about crushes. We’re talking about romantic crushes, not identity crushes based on admiration, or celebrity crushes based on a persona, or a role, someone has played. I am a guy who is very susceptible to crushes. … Continued
In honor of the “gayest” winter Olympics I thought I would write about gay athletes and share some uplifting, and challenging, stories. The 2018 winter olympics have been a powerful moment for gay men in sport. Eric Radford, a fellow … Continued
I thought it would be fun to explore an idea I personally hope is going to become obsolete. It’s the concept of top and bottom. For the record I’m versatile. Not V/T or V/B actually versatile. But, I wasn’t always. … Continued
We hear so much criticism of our community from without, and within, I thought it would be a nice change to talk about something that LGBT people do better than our heterosexual peers. While our breakups can be just as … Continued
Lately there have been a lot of new words bantered around by men who are openly attracted to other men but prefer not to use the term gay. This month let’s look at how I feel about “gay” and the … Continued
Why do I feel old as a gay man? Perhaps feeling old is more a state of mind than your fate. Let’s explore your attitude towards aging. It’s been an interesting year. Many of the men in my circle are … Continued
In this month’s post I’ll be talking about being gay and disabled. As part of our ongoing move towards inclusivity for all people it is important for us to understand the unique journeys faced by our physically, or mentally, challenged … Continued
In this month’s blog we’ll explore why Pride needs to remain political. In recent years Pride has become more celebratory and commercial than ever. My issue isn’t with commercialism but, if Pride is only about that we loose site of … Continued