Why do I Feel Old as a Gay Man?
Why do I feel old as a gay man? Perhaps feeling old is more a state of mind than your fate. Let’s explore your attitude towards aging. It’s been an interesting year. Many of the men in my circle are … Continued
Gay and Disabled
In this month’s post I’ll be talking about being gay and disabled. As part of our ongoing move towards inclusivity for all people it is important for us to understand the unique journeys faced by our physically, or mentally, challenged … Continued
Pride and Politics
In this month’s blog we’ll explore why Pride needs to remain political. In recent years Pride has become more celebratory and commercial than ever. My issue isn’t with commercialism but, if Pride is only about that we loose site of … Continued
The Viral Divide
In this month’s post we’ll be looking at HIV, the stigma still associated with the disease, an the unfortunate attitudes on both sides of the infection fence that are dividing our community. I happen to be HIV Negative. I don’t … Continued
What do You Think About God?
OK, let me clarify that question. I’m not asking about your negative experiences with religious organizations, or people. We’ve all had enough of those. I’m asking where you stand on the idea of a creator. Does that concept have meaning … Continued
Are You Bi-Phobic and Proud?
From time to time I run a Facebook campaign to attract more bisexual guys to our community. One of my goals with Naked Gay Men is to build bridges between gay and bisexual men. I find the number of rabid … Continued
What’s Your Relationship Style – Part 2
This is part 2 of my posts about relationship styles. I’ll share my experiences, as well as talk about how to handle the topic with your man. I’ve been in monogamous relationships, wildly open ones, and others in between. They … Continued
What’s Your Relationship Style?
I’m exploring relationship styles for the next two posts. It is one of the most important things for gay men to consider when they are looking at compatibility. We need to know what we want, and how to communicate it. … Continued