When people talk about coming out they usually mean opening up to people about their sexuality. But, lifelong coming out is how it actually works.It’s a process that continues as we live our lives and move into new situations with … Continued
Where do you start? What do you say? Should you bring props? I’m sorry, but telling your kids that you are gay is never easy. I’ve spoken to a lot of dads through the years, and the feeling is universal. … Continued
People have been asking what coaching is all about lately. How is it different from therapy, or counselling? This month’s post answers those questions. The primary difference between coaching, therapy, and counselling is that coaching is focused on tangible results. … Continued
Of all of the “ism’s” that create issues ageism among gay men is among the most destructive. In this month’s post, I explore the attitudes we have towards one another and the possibilities that we have for a healthier dialogue … Continued
With the holiday season upon us I thought I would focus on family for my December blog. Navigating the politics, and emotions, of family connections can be challenging at this time of year. With good cheer flowing things can get … Continued
Spirit day got me thinking about bullying. Many of us suffered from it as kids. But some of us were bullies. Bullying is alive and well in our schools, businesses, political organizations, and even social groups. As we explore bullying … Continued
Sport, the final frontier. More, and more, queer people are coming out even in the most difficult arena, sports. For professional athletes coming out can be daunting. For some, career ending. This month I’ll explore the history of queer athletes … Continued
The Stonewall movie is about to be released in theatres. It’s time for me to chime in on all the controversy. I completely understand the concerns about historical accuracy. But, there are a couple of things that we need to … Continued
In this months e-zine I’m going to talk about the process of “getting naked” and at the end there’s a special treat to help you figure out how naked you REALLY are…. read on to find out more. So, how … Continued