Your Legacy as a Gay Man
Your Legacy as a Gay Man Hi everyone. Happy New Year! I’m back. For the first quarter of 2022, I’ll be looking at getting older. This month we’ll explore legacies. As we reach middle age, and beyond, many of us … Continued
Money is Important, but It’s not the Point
For our last post of the quarter, we’re going to explore the importance of doing work that’s financially rewarding, but also fulfilling. I don’t believe that money isn’t important. It’s part of life. Being paid fairly for what you do … Continued
Finding Your Perfect Career Path Takes Letting Go of What You’ve Been Taught.
Figuring out how to make a living doing something worthwhile is a challenge many of us face. How to do it? We’ve been taught to follow the rules. We think doing that will bring us lasting success and happiness. But … Continued
Want to Maximize Your Career Potential? Learn to be You at Work.
Want to Maximize Your Career Potential? Learn to be You at Work. As we move into summer and a new quarter I’m switching gears and talking about your work life. Whether you run your own business or work for someone … Continued
Finding Real Love Means Being the Real You.
We’ve already spent a lot of time talking about relationships. This month let’s look at how important being your authentic self is when looking for love. Whether it’s your bisexuality, your love of kink, or your passion for drag, … Continued
Coming Out, What does it mean, and Why would I want to?
Coming Out, What does it mean, and Why would I want to? When we think of coming out we imagine a single event. You reveal your sexuality to your most important people, and you’re done. But, it’s much more complex … Continued
The Astounding Diversity of Human Sexuality
Ever since Kinsey stirred up controversy in the ’50s and ’60s with research that suggested human sexuality was widely, and naturally, varying, we have been discovering how right he was. Despite the apparent flaws in his research, what … Continued
Whatever the age difference, respect makes relationships work.
This month, for our last post in the Getting Older series, we’re looking at relationships between younger and older men. We’ll cover platonic relationships as well as sexual/romantic ones. Understanding the dynamics between the generations is important. In … Continued
If we insist on staying boys, we lose out on becoming men
This month, continuing to focus on aging, we’ll take a look at how we resist the maturing process. It’s called the “Peter Pan Complex”, and it’s about men who want to be boys forever. Let’s look at its implications … Continued