How to come out gay. Articles discussing how to come out and find your path forward to the life you deserve.
This month we’re going to talk about passing as straight and the whole concept of ”straight acting”. It was inspired by a video I watched last week that’s the fun and interesting piece this month. Is it easier for guys … Continued
This month I’d like to explore a delicate topic, coming out to your kids. What things should men consider, when is the right time, should you do it at all? While some of what we’ll cover is aimed directly at … Continued
As the first “out” generation reaches the “elder care” years we’re seeing how important it is for them to be in gay friendly environments. I’ve read a couple of articles about older gay men going back into the closet as … Continued
One of the things that gay and bi men seem very divided about is gay promiscuity. As a culture we are far more open about sex than the norm. Yet, sometimes that openness gets out of balance. Sex like any … Continued
This was going to be another preachy post about bisexuality. It’s one of my pet peeves that we, as gay men, are so unwelcoming to our bi brothers. I got to thinking about why we struggle so hard. I think … Continued
The landscape of HIV infection and treatment has changed tremendously in the last few years. Sadly, gay and bi men’s awareness of these shifts hasn’t kept up. Our stigmatization of people living with HIV continues. This month we’ll be taking … Continued
I thought it would be fun to explore an idea I personally hope is going to become obsolete. It’s the concept of top and bottom. For the record I’m versatile. Not V/T or V/B actually versatile. But, I wasn’t always. … Continued
Lately there have been a lot of new words bantered around by men who are openly attracted to other men but prefer not to use the term gay. This month let’s look at how I feel about “gay” and the … Continued
In this month’s post we’ll be looking at HIV, the stigma still associated with the disease, an the unfortunate attitudes on both sides of the infection fence that are dividing our community. I happen to be HIV Negative. I don’t … Continued